Entry nk betulkan keadaan!
Isu BF ni sensitif betul eh. Pantang disintuh. Yg cakap sini lain..cakap sana lain pon ada. Haihh… Dulu I penah tulis satu entry pasal BF and I dapat tahu ada few blog yg petik my link and my quote.
Firstly I tk suka nk judge org. For me setiap org ada preferences tersendiri.
And I pon tk suka nk tulis pasal BF actually, sbb I mmg jenis blogger yg malas nk buat entry provocative. Sbb I malas nk handle the impact. Sensitive issue like politics ker apa ker…better keep it to myself. I prefer entry yg biasa-biasa, yg tkkan buat tsunami ke blog I, sbb nnt I sendiri garu kepala nk membalas komen. Kalau I dpt duit balas each comment tu lain cerita.
Tapi entry Breastfeeding Dilemma tu, dibuat sebab I tkleh tahan baca satu blog (I can’t remember which blog, because I was blog hopping masa tu), she wrote in one of her entry that her son was crying non-stop sbb starving and she refused to feed her son with formula milk. She wrote there too..clearly and exactly this word EGO. Yer she said her EGO stopping her from feeding her son with FM. Tapi last-last kasik jugak FM. Kalau dia tk sebut dia ego, mungkin I couldn’t be bother at all to write such entry and buat susah hidup I later.
So, before you jump into conclusion, it wasn’t me yg pandai2 nk sebut ego2 bagai ni ok. And for your info saya juga berpengalaman BF, berpengalaman tk tido bermalam2 utk BF , dan berpengalaman memerah susu di malam2 or pagi2 buta. But I chose not to write any entry about it sbb again it’s too personal and I want to keep it to myself. Kalau nk mintak suggestion, yes I suggest guna Medela Freestyle like mine, sbb sgt senang dan mudah dan reliable.
So, kalau ada yg komen entry tu dibuat masa I belum start BF and tak tahu perit jerihnyer. Mind you, am still the same person and I stand on the very same opinion.
I have many friends yg BF jugak, fully BF and ada yg sampai more than 2 thn. Tapi diorg cool ok. Frens like Munirah, Ikirana, Hajar, Miza, Mama Mia and many more (just to name a few) They took the liberty to comment jugak dekat my entry tu, sbb they know me very well and diaorg tahu apa yg I maksudkan. BF ker…tk dapat BF wpun dah try kerr..am totally cool with both. Tkder diskriminasi. Cuma yg tk BF without trying, I tk berapa nk respect la. But still again this is all about preferences and choices. Our life is full of choices and in the hand of God.
Plus, clearly dekat situ, I letak 4 kategori and feel free to add kalau u rasa ada kategori yg I tk include in. So, that we could know better.
Seriously I susah nk put everything into nice words. Kalau lah I boleh lukis hati ini, it would be much better rather than words yg sometimes can be misinterpret easily pastu kene petik sana sini. I think I may need to rephrase my previous entry tu or add in disclaimer ker.
It wasn’t my intention at first to condemn saper2, but looking at the situation now, I think my entry tu sudah disalah tafsir. So, from now entry yg I think quite stirring will require a password. Thus, am gonna pick n select who can read it. Bukan eksyen ker hapa…tapi I malas la nk tulis2 entry like this..nk betulkan keadaan and what not. Letih.
Last but not least, sorryyy banyak-banyakkkk kepada sesiapa yg terasa with my previous entry pasal BF tu. I memang tk berniat utk kutuk siapa2 ok. Sbb I tahu, I pon human yg can’t escape from doing silly mistake and full of flaws. But, wouldn’t it be much nicer if you guys can talk/email me first and understand exactly message that am trying to deliver without making assumption or false theory?
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@ladyimran mrs imran, selalu org exclusive bf sampai berapa lama, yg i blaja, exclusive bf n no air kosong sampai 6 months
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@ladyimran after that kene start weaning sebab the calories in the milk wont be sufficient for the baby.
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ladyimran Reply:
June 1st, 2010 at 8:17 am
@aisyaHamzah yup sama juga dgn dekat msia ni up to 6 mons, then top up dgn solid food. yg bf sampai 2 thn lebih i rasa pilihan ibu sendiri
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@aisyaHamzah yg up to 2 years tu mungkin utk bonding or maybe baby tu dh biasa dgn BM so refuse susu or food lain..ada jugak kes cam tu
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@ladyimran this is the std advice that we have to give, i taktau la ini untuk india ker or satu dunia
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 1st, 2010 at 4:20 pm
yes doc! sama juga dgn dekat msia ni up to 6 mons, then top up dgn solid food. yg bf sampai 2 thn lebih i rasa pilihan ibu sendiri. mungkin utk bonding or maybe baby tu dh biasa dgn BM so refuse susu or food lain..ada jugak kes cam tu. or mungkin ada sbb lain lah..i dunno. karang i tulis macam2 karang org kata i pandai2 lak. huhu.
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Baru baca your previous entry yang u said controversial tu..hehehe…serius terghezut dapat tahu mom yang deny fm sebab nak bf jugak..me tak pernah jumpa lagi mom camtu..
Dear, today jugak i try to up my side of sharing after BF twice, both of my boys…tunggu…….
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 1st, 2010 at 4:32 pm
tu la..strange..i tk kisah pro BF ker tk pro BF ker sbb dunia ni byk jenis org and byk jenis obsession. cuma sometimes biarlah realistic and weigh everything wisely.
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very well said. wink!
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 1st, 2010 at 4:40 pm
susah nk explain dalam hati ada taman
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i cepat give up masa BF dulu. i tau silap i. so, tak terasa pun kalau org buat entry psl BF ni, sbb sdr silap sendiri..huhu..
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:06 am
well..thing is benda ni mmg personal sangat2. terasa atau tk terasa mmg depend on individu. tapi entahlah..i tetap tk faham kenapa such a big fuss over BF ni. I still remember masa i kecik-kecik di mana kumpulan emak-emak yg borak sambil BF..then I still ingat diaorg borak2 diaorg cakap..”ala kalau susah susu dah kering…beli jer lah susu tepung kt kedai. habis cerita”. as simple as that.
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Hi ladyimran! ini kali kedua saya komen kat sini. Sebenarnya i BF sampai cukup dua tahun tu adalah sebab I cuti jaga anak setahun. Sepanjang masa setahun tu dia dah terbiasa dgn my BM tu yang lekat terus tu. I’d say ebab rezeki dia dan by chance jugak lah kot. Sebab my nature adalah sgt pemalas mengepam BM, jadi kalau lah i tak cuti setahun tu, memang anak i susu tepung ja la sepenuhnya (dan tak ada salahnya pun susu tepung, I knew mana-many formula-fed friends yang sgt baik dan sayang ibunya dan tak berperangai seperti punca susu formula tu! haha sori la ayat macam ni)I dont see why its such a fuss BF or no BF. Asalkan baby sihat dan happy itu dah cukup bagi saya lah.
Sambung cerita, lepas 1 year, i masuk kerja balik (sebab malas pam tu) i introduce FM kat dia. Siksa ok nak kasi dia mau FM. Kesian. Sanggup dia berlapar kat daycare. Sampai dalam hati kadang2 cakap, “kalau ku tahu lah jadi begini, aku tak BF pun takpa”. I mean kesian tgk dia lapar, dan tunggu i balik. Nasib baik balik awal (cikgu lah katakan) boleh terus BM dia.
Banyak cabaran BF ni, mmg anak jadi manja sangat dan bonding tu mmg rapat. even kalau i marah dia pun dia tetap dtg dekat i. Sampai sekarang dok gentel tuut lagi. oh yang ni tak tahan… bila la aku nak jadi kencang semula. hii.
ok itu saja. dah almost jadi satu entry ni. Sorry ya MI…
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:14 am
(dan tak ada salahnya pun susu tepung, I knew mana-many formula-fed friends yang sgt baik dan sayang ibunya dan tak berperangai seperti punca susu formula tu! haha sori la ayat macam ni)I <—i baca byk kali baru faham ni..hehe
But yes, u r right…tiada salahnyer susu FM. Asal baby sihat dan happy dan membesar dgn bertenaga. Alhamdullilah.
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yess penol..BF ni mmg isu yg sensitif ok..i ingat lg kita stat kenal pun pasal BF coz u tanya abt domperidone utk tambah susu last yr..dah setahun dah isu tu, tp still HOT gitew..
bila i baca blk ur controversial post tu, clearly mmg ada yg tersalah tafsir & tak puas hati with ur statement tu. apa yg i paham, ego dlm post tu merujuk kpd BF mom yg mmg tau dah kurang susu tp still biar anak meraung sbb kelaparan, BUKAN BF moms yg kurang susu tp mmg bersungguh2 berusaha utk tambahkan susu ok.i see both as in 2 different categories.mmg betul BF journey adalah tidak mudah.
Lets put it in another scenario, lets say kita takleh mkn solid food, boleh minum susu je (mcm baby lah jugak), of course kita akan cari the best milk brand in the market (for babies breast milk la kan??). tapi bila manufacturer susu tu ada production problem then causing sume stok susu brand tu takde dlm market(bekalan susu merudum) takkan kita nak biar diri sendiri mati kelaparan..of coz kita akan cari the next best milk brand pulak..betul tak?? samalah jugak dlm kes baby tu.
semua tahu knp kita niat nak susukan anak kan?? sbb nak give ‘em the best. but sometimes, whether we realize it or not, BF our babies as long as we can without any additional FM does make our ‘resume’ as mother looks good..Cthnya “Oh!!u bg FM dah ke??my Hannah ni dah 9 bulan but still BF lg tau”. Tak pun “Laa..u BF 6 bulan je??anak I ni dah setahun lebih dah masih BF lg” sorry lah kalau i exaggerate ok tp mesti ada jugak pernah dengar yg ala2 gitu.
sorry ye tuan tanah, kalau my comment ni berjela sgt..and lastly..minta maaf kalau ada yg tersinggung dgn my comment ni. PEACE
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:19 am
tu lah..just be realistic and BF semampu yg boleh. kalau dah tk mampu, susu dah kurang kasik la food lain or susu lain. benda ni simple jer tapi entah mcm mana jadi rumit. one of my fren cakap, wouldn’t i agree with her that semua benda sekarang telah di overrated. isu kecik dibesar2 kan. well…i second her!
takper..komen sekali sekala panjang utk tunjuk dalam hati ada taman. karang org misinterpret pastu petik sana sini..susah pula yer.
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ya…sy membangkang keras yang arif.
hhehehhe
topic di luar kemampuan diri sebenar yg masih single dan available.
plus ketinggalan keretapi. kekekek
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Mrs Imran Reply:
June 9th, 2010 at 9:14 pm
hihi..insyallah dah berdoa kat kaabah ada la jodoh tu nnt. pasal keretapi jgn risau..akan ada keretapi lain menyusul..:D sbb topik breastfeeding topik sepanjang zaman
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