I thot it was easy…

Posted by Mrs Imran on Apr 14, 2009
Filed Under Pregnancy | 26 comments

I never thought my pregnancy can be this rough. Often I see many pregnant women happily cruising the mall with their husband, browsing over baby gear and maternity stuff.

While me on the other hand, I have to bear with the fact that my pregnancy is really a life challenge to me and I still can’t believe how I can survive those tough moments. Plus, it wasn’t for a short period; I have to suffer for the daily nauseas ness for about 6 months!! Well, although hormone imbalance is common during early pregnancy, but again I was nearly to giving up, but knowing giving up also won’t make any significant difference as I’ve already carry the baby in my womb, so I tried to gather again all the remaining strength that I still has and pray to god a lot.

I used to cry while eating because I cannot take the food but at the same time I feel so hungry. Feel like passing out, can’t even stand or sit let alone walking.

I threw up about 7-10 times a day and it wasn’t only during morning time. So, I hate when people ask me how about your morning sickness? It’s actually throughout the day sickness ok.

I was on medical leave for about 2 months plus. Lucky most of my project has already being delivered to the site and due to the global economic crisis, there are not many projects coming in also this year. So, I was able to leave my work behind without worrying so much. Thank god for that.

I really owed my mom and husband as without these 2 people I don’t think I’m strong enough to fight. At times, I can see my husband also cried silently. I know how it felt. How it feels when you loved ones in pain, but nothing you can do to take the pain away or even lessening it.

I am slightly better now or should I say much better compare to last time since I’m actively commenting on my friends’ facebook status and photos…Hehe. To compensate such a gloomy entry, I put up here few of my recent photos taken during Balong’s wedding. Not many…sbb gambar yang lain2 adalah ter-sgt horror. Hahaha.

: It’s obvious that I’m pregnant uncle..no need to finger point :D

26 Comments

as_comei | April 15, 2009 at 2:25 am

comel la muka u dlm gmbr tu..hihi..

bila bc u punye cite ni,takotnye…tapi i know,u mesti tabah sebab nak make sure baby lahir dgn selamat & sihat kan.biar pon kena harungi kepayahan ni kan….pengorbanan ibu tu.hehe.nanti u cite kat anak u bila dia dah besar nnt k…

i ni je la,blom rezeki baby lg.hehe.takpe,baca kisah org pregnant pon tumpang gembira…:D

take care ye!!

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
comel la sangat kan..hihi mcm ada sumbat cupcake dalam pipi..hihi

takut mmg takut, tapi u kene fikir mcm ni..hmm walau u takut mcm mana sekali pon..itu mmg dah our life cycle, so try not to worry too much sbb useless. sbb risau2 and takut2 pon u still hafto kan.

after all, kalau fikir nnt dah tua takder anak2 nk teman lagi sedih and menakutkan

takper nnt ada lah rezeki u tu, but actually to tell u da truth bukan senang juga nk conceive first time, there a lots of do and dons. kalau nk tahu tips2 sket dari i, nnt email i yer

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naya | April 15, 2009 at 4:24 am

i dah agak that u r back when u start commenting on facebook & watnots. ni lagi la, makin hangat mengupdate blog!

wow, lepas baca ur post, i terus teringat kat my mom and the pain she had to endure just to bring me into this world!

i pray that everything will run smoothly for u, ur hubby and dat lil extension inside u.

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
hehe..i was allergy to many websites and blog including mine. lucky facebook tak. so bila i was a bit ok and recover, i slowly start comment sket2 kt facebook tu, at least somehow keeping myself busy main dekat facebook tu i lupa sekejap about discomfort and all

mostly young mothers yg i tanya, diaorg pon cakap pengalaman tu buat diaorg insaf gila2 and jadi lagi sayang and respect dgn parents there is a reason why syurga is di bawah tapak kaki ibu

i hope everything will run smoothly too…

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Yan | April 15, 2009 at 4:55 am

Babe,

When I was pregnant to our son, I had my ‘morning sickness’ until my 7th – 8th month. Vomited everyday, so many times everyday. Couldn’t smell so many things especially when ppl cooking (the smell of oil and onions) etc.

I was admitted to hospital because of dehydration for few times.

I almost gave up more than 10 times.

I cried almost everyday too.

I resigned from my job because I took so many leaves and MC.

Until now, I kept telling my hubby that I am not sure if I can take it for the second time but babe, just so you know, it will pass and now we are happily planning for the second one although the history does make me feel so scared that I have to face that again.

So be strong okay. We have our loving hubbies around

(that’s the best thing ever)

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
oh my my..you poor thing now i should be more positive as there are actually others who suffers more than me. i cant stand the smell of onions, oil, spice and many other things also.

i was this close to be admitted, but lucky the gynae said am doing good and my body coping with the pregnancy very well.

but poor you, you have to tender your resignation. i was afraid of losing job too due to my condition, but it seemed that god really being nice to me, so i was safe.

you must be proud of yourself as you are capable to give birth to a human that you call son. nothing is more precious than that. we are lucky also being able to get pregnant while there are some others who can’t, thus we should be thankful.

yeah you right, to have a loving hubby around is the best thing ever

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Hunny | April 15, 2009 at 4:56 am

huuu..
kadang2 menakutkan dgr…
smpi akak nk give up…
tp tula pengorbanan kan…
hopefully u’ll be fine until the delivery…
& baby akan jd gigih juga berkat kegigihan ibunya…
hehe…
take care… !

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:39 pm
when your time comes nnt, make sure you be strong too ok:) just remember nnt kalau dh dpt baby, you boleh amik gambar baby banyak2

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anakpakali | April 15, 2009 at 4:59 am

finally!!! you update banyak2 sikit sbb kadang2 i did bantai gelak sorang2 with your entry!!!

yes.. hope that everything run smoothly!! aminn

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
insyallahhhhh kalau terdaya , nk update banyak2 mmg la boleh tapi idea jer la yg takder nnt. skang ni banyak la sbb nk qada yg 7 bulan punye cerita..ehe

thanks for praying for me harap2 doa semua org makbul la yer

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coffeeaddicts | April 15, 2009 at 5:28 am

alaaa… comei nya u Nol!
I just lobe looking at preggie mommies ok.comel ja!

nk preggie jugak, plssss~!

take care Nol.
ohh… i hope u still hv stock for asam…hehee.just let me knowlah if u need some more.

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 7:59 pm
berusahalah!! hehe nnt dapat la tu .u kene buat kung fu yang betul baru dapat…hehe

asam ada lagi, tinggal satu peket jer lagi yg belum bukak, yg lagi 2 dh habis, then another one tk lama lagi habis la tu..hehe jauh betul i import asam

neway thanks a lot yer…mcm tk percaya jer u kasik i da asam, ingat u main2..hehe

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dgoon | April 15, 2009 at 6:28 am

nol..sabar
ni anak aku tgh merengek
kang ada masa aku citer pengalaman aku yg ngeri during pregnancy n deliver n after..hehehe
tp umpama mkn cili, makin pedas makin
sedap
lepas mkn , nak mkn lgi .
mcm tulah ngandung..sabar yea, istighfar bnyk2
we are lucky because god give us hubby yg baik n understanding,.syukur

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
yer dgoon, ko mmg bagus dari dulu pon ko lah org paling sabar. dah la perangai budak2 budiman boleh tahan eloknya..hehe aku ingat lagi ko sakit period pastu ko tanak makan ubat sbb ko sanggup tahan sakit

so aku leh bayangkan ko sanggup tahan sakit bersalin tu dgoon mmg mantap!!

ha nnt cerita laaa, apa yg scary yer? ishhhh..

tu la kene tarik nafas and muhasabah diri banyak2..ehe

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Cwynire | April 15, 2009 at 7:00 am

Being a mom’s tough all the way through – starting from pregnancy, to labour, to confinement (i pernah nangis gile2 time nih) to taking care of the baby (esp masa diorang saki – susah wooo) … even time anak dah makin independant … we’d continue to worry for them e.g. their safety, etc … but to have a descendant … to have company, to have someone who need us so badly … to share love & more … & to have someone doa for us even once we’re gone — priceless … so hang on there & be tough kay … bright skies ahead insyaAllah – believe it

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
how should i say, owin mmg iron lady. i always awe at your ability to give birth to 4 (and plus one) while i baru nk masuk 1, itupon rasa sgt2 la mencabar.

i know it will not end here, to take care the baby and raise them up is even more challenging. dia dalam perut pon kiter dah worry about so many things, inikan pulak membesar di zaman yg sangat daring ini. i learnt from your blog, your first child dah masuk sekolah dah, yeah u right they grow up really fast. good luck 2 u for the new edition nnt

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~Reena~ | April 15, 2009 at 7:55 am

Itu lah pengorbanan seorang ibu..

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 8:12 pm
i love my emak! sob sob..if i could turn back time, i swear i will be good and behave.

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mya | April 15, 2009 at 6:41 pm

takpe yang. itu semua pengalaman terindah..

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
true true..nnt one day kiter akan senyum bila fikir2 balik kenangan terindah ni

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sexyinred | April 15, 2009 at 7:43 pm

Alahai camner i leh miss ur very first entry after the long silence….

Ermmmmmm it’s so scary to read the experience that u went through and all the ladies who commented…if i have to go through what you you had all alone bcoz he’s not always around.

i think i willl…ermmm no maybe I shouldn’t think of anything… sigh! anyway nice to have you back penol!

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 15th, 2009 at 8:42 pm
mana tk miss you asik tengok ebay. ehe. pastu komplen kalah bid. eheh. kelakar.

tu lah its kinda scary, but if you were to get pregnant it is advisable to have somebody around to look after you, be your mom or husband or somebody that you feel comfortable with. sbb i tell you what, mmg tk boleh survive sorang2. even my gynae pon alwways tanya ada org tak dekat rumah utk jaga i. sbb kalau u pengsan ker apa ker ada org yg alert.

itu la don think too much babe, when the time comes you will know what to do

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farah | April 16, 2009 at 1:49 am

glad u’re ok now..

mine wasnt easy either.. the first pregnancy with nadhrah, was 3 months of sickness and nausea, non-stop, same as u daily vomiting.. sampai dh lembik2 dh.. muntah sampai dh kaler ijau/coklat, sbb perut kosong.. tp gagahkan diri gak gi keje.. dpt art director yg tak memahami made it worst..
alhamdulillah ngam2 masuk 4months, ms tu 1st day raya, terus ok, dpt laa mkn puas2 raya tu!

with this 2nd.. it didnt come daily, there are better days n not so good days, more of heartburn n sakit pinggang case than nausea.. n tersgt2 tak thn bile tiga serangkai itu dtg menyerang serentak… unlike ms ngan nadhrah, this time sgt2 la memilih, xleh slh mkn langsung, xsuke je uwek..xleh slh mkn or lmbt mkn,mmg akan muntah sampai membw ke brp hr takleh mkn.. mkn je klua blk.. n this drags until 4months.. n having to jaga nadhrah at the same time wasnt easy.. br la this month btul2 dpt enjoy..

but nevertheless.. am so excited with the pregnancy..

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Miza | April 19, 2009 at 9:53 pm

Hang in there Ayu! you can do it. just a little bit more now! im sure u’ll do fine though its maybe good to share horror labor stories with other mommies, i actually refrained myself from hearing any kind of story except what’s been told by my gynae. i think it kept me focus and helped build my confidence towards labor.

pregnancy and delivery might be painful and scary, but its definitely A-D-D-I-C-T-I-V-E!!

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Mrs Imran Reply:
April 19th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
Yeah, sure I “think” I am doing good here So far I didn’t dig any tips or share horror stories from other mommies during labor and I couldn’t agree more with you that it will only tarnish our confidence. But still, it’s depend on the story itself, sometimes good tips like to recite surah and breathing control is worth to follow

Everything will come naturally. I believe on that, plus this is part of our life. Tapi yg addictive tu i belum boleh bayangkan lagi hahaha. Neway, malam semalam I mimpi u dgn danny dapat another baby.:)

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Miza | April 20, 2009 at 11:22 pm

Tips like doa and surah recital are definitely worth sharing! and if u and imran have some spare time, its worth going to one of those prenatal classes. usually hospitals offers this kind of classes to help educate new parents on pregnancy, labor and parenthood. u can learn abt breathing techniques and such.

hahah, kelakar la ur mimpi!! tapi aminnnn, hopefully balik msia nanti can start working on ayra’s sibling project! haha!

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